I am worried my boyfriend will hear lad's claims about me after drunken night

DEAR DEIDRE: A BOY is telling people he did sexual stuff to me when I was drunk. I worry someone will tell my boyfriend.

I am 18 and sneaked out to meet a gang of friends in a local park.

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I had some strong cider and got incredibly drunk and I can’t remember anything.

One of this lad’s mates knows my boyfriend. If I tell him myself about what is being said, he will blow his lid and dump me.

Every time he calls me I am terrified he has found out.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell the boy spreading rumours that you have no memory of that night.

But, if he sexually assaulted you when you were in no condition to give consent, he committed a criminal offence.

You can find help and support for the distress you understandably feel through Rape Crisis (rapecrisis.org.uk, 0808 802 9999).

Better your boyfriend hears from you what happened.

If he reacts angrily, ask yourself whether he is someone you really want to be with.

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